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A book in Estonian, from 2008, which is mostly a translated collection of four English books by Jackson J. Adam: The Secrets of Abundant Health (1995), The Secrets of Abundant Wealth (1996), The Secrets of Abundant Love (1996), and The Secrets of Abundant Happiness (1998).

The book provides a collection of sound advice which can hardly be called "secrets" anymore nowadays thanks to the proliferation of personal development and self-help literature and audio, but given how low is the number of people actually following such advice it doesn't hurt to have yet another book on it. What makes "Ennast leida, ennast hoida" different from a typical self-help book is its way of presentation -- the advice is packed into fictional but quite realistic-sounding narratives -- which makes it an easy read and also helps with the impact factor (think of fairy tales as a good example of memorable educational narratives). The pattern used in each section is the following: a young man is in distress, an old Chinese guy shows up, talks a bit and gives the young man a list of ten names with phone numbers, and goes away. The young man then visits those people, each of whom describes how they met with the Chinese guy years ago and what was the main advice they got out of the encounters with the old man and with the ten other people that were on the list they got from the Chinese guy.

There are a few dubious explanations on how and why some of the "secrets" work (some of those even explicitly corrected by the Estonian translator), but the main points are good and valuable. The "secrets" of health listed are the power of thinking and imagination, breathing, healthy eating, laughing, resting, posture, living environment, faith, and love; the "secrets" of love are the power of thought, respect, giving, friendship, touching, freedom, communication, faithfulness, desire, and trust; the "secrets" of happiness are mentality and attitudes, bodily factors (physical exercise, anchoring, posture, food, etc.), embracing every moment, the power of imagination and positive affirmation, goals, humor, forgiveness, giving, relationships, and faith; the "secrets" of wealth are the power of unconscious beliefs, strong desires, clarity of wishes and goals, detailed plans, domain-specific knowledge, willpower and persistence, control of expenditures, honesty, faith, and charity.

All in all, it is a good collection of useful advice. While it would be a very good idea to get the deeper knowledge about each point from other sources, this book serves as a handy reference list for occasional quick memory refresh.

More info about "Ennast leida, ennast hoida":
http://www.rahvaraamat.ee/?id=62&no=R110192

and the originals by Adam J. Jackson:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/0061044245/
http://www.amazon.com/dp/0722536909/
http://www.amazon.com/dp/0722539436/
http://www.amazon.com/dp/0722536895/

(umm, some of the third-party prices at Amazon are, to put it mildly, CRAZY, though)